I've been hearing this phrase a lot lately: "But who know's what they're thinking. They don't think like we do, that's for sure!" 


Nope... no, they don't, honey, and you're lyin' if you say your man does. 


Sometimes we wonder if we're being silly, if we're acting crazy, if our concerns are justified even just in the slightest. We analyze, mull, woolgather, and ponder. 


The fact of the matter is this: NONE OF US ARE MIND READERS. NONE. Phenomena like Edward Cullen and Christian Grey's mindreading prowess does not exist! Those books are fine to get away once in a while, but you're foolin' yourself if you think you'll find that dude someday.


So. With that in mind, I'd like to share a little of what I've learned about dudes, diggin each other, dating, and doin' it. Everyone's always telling me I should write a book, because I've seen some crazy shit in relationships...